If one is seeking peace and trying to avoid conflict, then bullets and bombs are useless. Peace can be obtained only via dialog and communication. Likewise, conflict can be prevented by understanding and not overreacting. Over reaching your boundaries and crossing limits is a recipe for disaster. The best antidote to aggression is the strength of conviction. After the war, one thing remains standing: a prospect of calm and restraint to overcome the pain and suffering of conflict. Some say: “You cannot be peaceful unless you’re capable of great violence.” Violence is never the answer for dealing with grievances. Rather, addressing the grievances can be done with the remarkable realization that no grievance is severe than the fruits of peace. True, peace can’t be achieved from a position of weakness. The aggressors typically only understand the language of pure aggression. They don’t comprehend the nature of peace without the need for conflict. So, what options one has for the peace in the imperfect world where it is imperative to ignore the urge to get a short-term gain over a long-term solution. The million dollars question is whether to fight or say on sidelines in view of the ubiquitous nature of a matrix of lies. The thought that needs reinforcement is that in the case of fights when it is unavoidable, there is no choice but to fight in order to defend liberty. So, some fights are necessary and should be fought to a logical end. Of course, peace has to be a priority. Indeed, peace can only come if the cost of the war is more than the benefits of peace. In the admist of conflict lies peace. Any fool can know how to wage a war. The point is to understand how to sustain peace. If we ask, “What else could this mean?”, then most confused understandings could be easily avoided. We know that when animals fight, it’s the grass that pays the price. When you fall, what matters most is where you slipped. Conflict is bound to happen as any change means movement and movement means friction. Criticism generally leads to conflict and does not necessarily change, although it can be avoided by doing something or not doing another thing, but in the end, it takes total resolve to commit to the lasting peace. Getting angry is very easy, but getting angry for the right reasons rarely happens because we focus more on the hurt than healing. Running from conflict is not the solution as it can not avoid the need to control since we fear or deny our differences, which divides us further. All the creativity originates from conflict of ideas. Wrong assumptions always destroy most relationships and lead to unnecessary controversies. If we look hard enough, we will find a beautiful question mostly shapes a beautiful answer. So, focusing on answers rather than questions leads to more peace and less conflict. Strong views lead to mistakes, resulting in erroneous conclusions, thus increasing conflicts and reducing chances of peace.

Advice is a great craft to be done with the utmost care by not endangering delicate relationships